Big Girls dont cry

My favorite song at the moment is Fergie's "Big Girls Don't Cry".

I am a hopeless(?)romantic at heart. I am a sucker for sad telenovelas with happy endings. the good winning over evil. Where true love is forever. Where love means having to say you love someone and actually mean it. that big girls like me gets a break. Where Mr. right can see right through the lard and the homely face and thinks Miss Piggy is a beauty.

And for every milestone, there has to be a good theme song that needs to go with it.

I can relate to this...i need to get my life back in order.... no more heart wrenching tears ....the only tears that i will cry from now on are tears of relief, joy and happiness.... no more crying from that silly school, from that silly life.

nope. if we can't take the heat from the kitchen it's either we suffer in silence or we leave...


i chose to leave....with dignity. Fergie , i love the wisdom of this song and the truth that it tells.


poignant yet true. In life, we often have waged many battles that seemed like a "sure thing" only for it to not pan out in the end and then we had to cry those copious tears, such heart breaking moments but then at 32 years old, i have made "selective perception" a new friend.

we choose our battles well, we only cry for the most important things. not the b.s stuff that nursing school had so much of... my tears have gone kaput. no more tears. please.